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Michelle DeStefano, RN, MPA, NEA-BC, is a former Chief Nursing Officer who provides executive coaching for healthcare leaders: nurse executives, directors, and VPs preparing for the C-suite. Her SOAR Model and 4R’s Framework help leaders quiet self-doubt, strengthen executive presence, and deliver measurable team results.
Michelle DeStefano, RN, MPA, NEA-BC, is a former Chief Nursing Officer who provides executive coaching for healthcare leaders: nurse executives, directors, and VPs preparing for the C-suite. Her SOAR Model and 4R’s Framework help leaders quiet self-doubt, strengthen executive presence, and deliver measurable team results.
Michelle’s three decades in nursing and hospital leadership, combined with her executive coaching certifications, awards, and speaking engagements, have positioned her as a trusted voice in healthcare.



You’ve poured years into your healthcare career, yet something feels off. Instead of thriving, you find yourself:
Facing stalled advancement, restructuring, or flat income despite years of hard work.
Carrying constant pressure while questioning your worth, managing disengaged teams, and battling turnover and burnout.
Feeling personally drained as organizational outcomes stall—leaving you wondering if leadership is truly sustainable.
This cycle of self-doubt isn’t just draining—it’s costly. It robs leaders of confidence, influence, and the satisfaction they’ve worked so hard to achieve.
A complimentary leadership webinar for nurse leaders who are tired of pushing change that doesn’t last.
Michelle’s coaching blends evidence-based leadership strategies with deep psychological insight. Through her signature SOAR Model (Scan, Opportunity, Action, Results) and 4R’s Framework (Recognize, Reflect, Reframe, Respond), she equips leaders to silence limiting beliefs, clarify their vision, and step into the next level of leadership with courage and confidence.
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Are you ready to rise into the C-Suite? Michelle’s VP-to-C-Suite Readiness Self-Assessment helps you evaluate your leadership strengths, uncover growth opportunities, and map the next steps to senior executive success.
Michelle’s proven process goes beyond motivation — it’s practical, evidence-based, and designed for leaders under pressure. You won’t get vague advice; you’ll get tools that deliver measurable results.
"The content was insightful, practical, and highly relatable for our leaders. Your ability to connect leadership principles with real-world healthcare experiences made the session both engaging and empowering."
"Working with Michelle has been life-changing. That’s the result of combining real-world healthcare leadership experience with proven coaching frameworks that drive measurable change."
"From our very first call, we began identifying and mapping out my goals. She helped me see how my diverse background in business and healthcare positioned me for my dream job."
"As part of a workforce reduction after 22 years, I contacted Michelle after numerous recommendations. She is extremely helpful in guiding me through each step of the process."
"Working with Michelle gave me the ability to step up, take charge, and trust my own expertise in executive settings." "She helped me define my leadership identity and gave me the confidence to engage with the C-suite."
"Through Michelle’s coaching, I’ve been able to expand my network and connect with healthcare leaders across the country and have been sought after for executive positions. "Her experience provides clarity and direction in navigating career growth within healthcare leadership."
"Michelle was a strategic sounding board, helping me refine my career direction and reframe my approach." She helps you understand what you bring to the table and how to communicate it effectively."
"Michelle reviewed my Clifton Strengths and DISC assessment and built a profile that helped me capitalize on my strengths while closing skill gaps." "I’ve learned to be more patient and intentional in my communication, and that’s made all the difference. “My employee engagement SOARED."
Michelle is an executive coach, speaker, and author who helps healthcare leaders silence the inner critic and step into confident, impactful leadership. With 30+ years in nursing and hospital leadership, including as a Chief Nursing Officer, she combines deep empathy with proven strategy.
Her coaching is more than support — it’s transformation. Leaders who work with Michelle experience results that ripple across every level of their career and organization:
Position yourself for at least 5 years of sustained impact while building a leadership legacy.
Advance into higher roles and increase your earning potential by $30K or more within 6–12 months.
Improve staff satisfaction and retention with proven strategies that boost engagement scores.
Lead measurable improvements in patient experience, infection reduction, and departmental performance metrics.
Lead with confidence, clarity, and balance — no longer fearing restructures, but shaping the future of your organization.
Michelle helps audiences lead with clarity, confidence, and conviction in high-stakes environments by teaching them how to silence the inner critic and reframe their legacy utilizing the SOAR Resilience Framework ™:
Scan the Story, Own the opportunity, Activate the Aligned Actions, Reframe for Results
You don’t have to navigate leadership challenges alone. Whether you’re seeking personalized coaching, hands-on team development, or practical tools you can apply right away — there’s a clear next step waiting for you.
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Bring Michelle to your organization or event for workshops, keynotes, and leadership sessions that spark transformation and equip teams to lead with confidence.
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